"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mastering sub communication.

When you see a dyck, you instantly know she's homo.
When you see a gay dude, you know.
Most times without even interacting with them.
At first glance, you pick up on it without having to ask them.

Just the same way when people see you, they should know you're confident.
Your look, your attitude, your words should ooze confidence.

You should have the "I can fcuk some sheet up" look.
Your height doesn't really matter, think Lil Wayne. Think Mayweather. Think Eminem.

It'd be good for you to sometimes practice adventurous things like jumping out of a plane.
So it's not just an act.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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When you walk into a room, people should know "a man is here".
People pick up on sub communication.
If you're not sub communicating confidence, then you're sub comm'n something else.

Laugh loud.
Not obnoxiously but the person next to you should know you laughed.

Declaring your presence without saying a word.


If you have to applaud, clap loud and strong.
Like you're spanking a girl. Sub communicates sexual dominance.

When you walk into a room, do not look around like you're lost or trying to be recognized.
Know where you're going, focus and head there.

Walk up right.

Walk slow.
 

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Talk loud and slow. You shouldn't have to repeat yourself.
Only talk when there's a listener.
Stop talking when the person zones out or stops listening (turns to someone else or answers a call)
Talk less.

Wipe that grin off your face.
If there's something funny, laugh.
If there's nothing funny, have your poker face on. Unreadable.
This should always be your default look.
Don't wear your emotions on your face.

Practice in front of the mirror, till you get your stance and facial expression right.

When you meet people, shake their hands, firmly, always.

Men would automatically be drawn to you.

Try it, when you're at your center. Go stand somewhere alone and see how people are sub consciously drawn to where you are.
 

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I just have this natural face that makes it look like I'm mad or in a bad mood.
The goal for default facial expression is emotionless.

People cannot tell if you're happy or sad, winning or losing. You just are. Think Sport Coaches. Think Quarterbacks.

It helps when I remember to relax my facial muscles.

Smiling require muscles, frown require facial strain so relaxing the muscles put you exactly where you want. Sometimes smirk.
 

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If a girl accepts your offer of a sambuca on a date then she is down to fcuk.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have.

Black panties can also mean 'time of the month'.
I understand that you don't want to be wrong, but it's not a random fact that women wear black panties because they're on their period. Maybe no woman has ever had sex with you that was planning on it.
 

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Value:

When people want to believe some (good) things about you, don't stop them.

"I bet he's confident"
"I bet he's good in the sack"
"I bet he's good with the ladies"
"I bet he's got money"

When people recognize a high value of you, even if it's not necessarily true of you, don't refute it, enjoy it.

The inexperienced make the mistake of arguing, correcting, denying a proposed assumption of higher value.

Your response should be humble, neither approving or refusing the fact.
 

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For your own good, get a girl undressed and horny and don't make love to her.

For your own good, get a girl's phone number and never hit her up.

For your own good, make plans with a girl and cancel last minute.

For your own good, chat a girl up and don't exchange contact info.

For your own good, delete a random girl's phone number from your phone.
 

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Drink like a man:
When you drink, do not hold the liquid in your mouth.
It should go from the container down your throat.
That way, you can carry a conversation immediately.
That way, if someone says something funny, you can laugh without spilling out the drink in your mouth.
Don't have your mouth filled with your cheeks poking out.
Don't hold drink in your mouth like a child.


Everyone has a plan till they meet an alpha.
Then the Alpha's plan becomes their plan.
Be the Alpha.
 

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Big girls swallow (as a general rule).
If you get them naked and they say 'can you just hold me?' they don't mean it.
Catholic girls are often dirty horny sluts.
Never ask, "did I hurt you?" It either makes you sound like a ***** or an arrogant tool.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bar phone numbers are mostly useless. If you don't fvck them the night you meet them, you probably won't see them again.
 

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I like this.

Please provide us with specific strategies to execute such things.
In my experience, the #1 way to cause a woman emotional fluctuation is to let her see (in a way that seems, or is, accidental) other women giving you any kind of attention, as long as it's combined with not being a simp. How convenient that girls seeing other girls giving you attention is also the easiest way to get more girls in the first place.
 

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Everyone talks.
Only the disciplined learn when not to talk.
Be disciplined. Learn to shut up.


Alpha takes care of the people who look up to him. Not necessarily financial but alpha makes sure everything runs smooth.
Alpha anticipates the future and what would be needed so Alpha make arrangements for its delivery before the simple folks realize its importance.
When people have to be somewhere on time, Alpha helps them make it possible.

Make people reliant on you.

If you do not take care of those who look up to you,
they will become self sufficient, no longer revering respect and fear towards you but commonality and disgust.
The simple do not forgive an alpha who makes them have to think for themselves.
Be the oracle everyone comes to for knowledge, for approval, for acceptance.

A woman loses respect for the man when she has to do everything she wishes the man does to her and for her.

Take care of her and make her work for you not for herself.
 

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Big girls swallow (as a general rule).
If you get them naked and they say 'can you just hold me?' they don't mean it.
Catholic girls are often dirty horny sluts.
Never ask, "did I hurt you?" It either makes you sound like a ***** or an arrogant tool.
Agree on the big girls fact. 100%
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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In my experience, the #1 way to cause a woman emotional fluctuation is to let her see (in a way that seems, or is, accidental) other women giving you any kind of attention, as long as it's combined with not being a simp. How convenient that girls seeing other girls giving you attention is also the easiest way to get more girls in the first place.
This 1000%. I used this technique a few years back and it worked like a charm. She hit my phone up that very night that she saw me. She couldn't stand it.
 

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This 1000%. I used this technique a few years back and it worked like a charm. She hit my phone up that very night that she saw me. She couldn't stand it.
Someone with experience about it should write a thread about setting these kinds of situations up on a re-occurring, permanent basis so you can manage your plate(s) with it, because being around women who give you attention really is the "cheat code" to game.

Why don't you tell us that particular story to begin with.
 

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Not much of a story. I just had this woman who was treating me like her lowest priority and I went out with some friends and hung out with some hot girls that we knew and had been hanging with before this, on occasion, and I played it up to make it look even more like these women were into me. They truly were, so that made it easier, but I made sure to go extra kino with them when directly in her line of sight and demonstrably having a great time.
 

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If she can't miss you, she'll leave you.
If she gets fcuked while missing you, the emotions can redirect to the new man.


To keep a woman with you for a long time (married):
Work her emotions
Work her punani


A woman's promise is only in present tense.
Not past tense. Not future tense. But present tense.

I will love you always - means as of this moment, I have loving emotions toward you.

I won't have ever done that - means at the time it happened, I wasn't at a place to do it.
* This has nothing to do w the present or future.


Nothing is ever guaranteed with women.
 

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If she's a Queen, then you are the King not the servant.
Treat her accordingly. Do not look up to her.

No matter how "in love" you are, she's replaceable, never forget.

Kings do not kneel for their Queens.

When you eventually propose, you do not have to kneel to propose.
Disney portrays it, society expects it but kneeling, in no way maintains or increases a man's value.
This is not a hard rule.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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