"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Random eye contact in class

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Theres cute this asian girl in my class, ive talked to her a few times, had a few laughs. Well once in a while our eyes will meet and we will stare at each other for like 10 seconds and we both smile, then she breaks. I can see her in the corner of my eye looking at me, its as if shes craving my eye contact and wants this done on purpose. Any ideas?

Heres a pic: http://img255.imageshack.us/img255/9274/lac4c95ea338f97792e2763do7.jpg
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Escalate, here's your chance to move on. The girls already interested you, so you've pretty much passed the hard part. So right now, just make sure to escalate and go for rapport. I mean really though, this girl has made it possible for you to skip the hard part and just escalate.
 
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HandyAndy said:
Well I also for got to mention she has a BF lol. And hes shorter than her by 7,000 inches, but I guess that doesnt matter.
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wait she has a boyfriend and she's flirting with you? Now things might get complicated :(
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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That, my friend, means one thing, she's into you. I'd imagine all you have to do is talk to her. Oh and when you talk with her don't forget to keep intense eye contact. SHe'd like that.
 
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don't feel like finishing my essay so I'll add my opinion.

Go ahead and make a move, but know if she is willing to leave her boyfriend for you, she is very likely to do the same to you if another guy comes along. There's many posts here on this topic so just search for them and read their comments
 
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I think she likes you. The eye contact and staring, then breaking with a smile.
It's good signs mate
 
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