"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Random eye contact in class

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Theres cute this asian girl in my class, ive talked to her a few times, had a few laughs. Well once in a while our eyes will meet and we will stare at each other for like 10 seconds and we both smile, then she breaks. I can see her in the corner of my eye looking at me, its as if shes craving my eye contact and wants this done on purpose. Any ideas?

Heres a pic: http://img255.imageshack.us/img255/9274/lac4c95ea338f97792e2763do7.jpg
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Escalate, here's your chance to move on. The girls already interested you, so you've pretty much passed the hard part. So right now, just make sure to escalate and go for rapport. I mean really though, this girl has made it possible for you to skip the hard part and just escalate.
 
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Well I also for got to mention she has a BF lol. And hes shorter than her by 7,000 inches, but I guess that doesnt matter.
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wait she has a boyfriend and she's flirting with you? Now things might get complicated :(
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That, my friend, means one thing, she's into you. I'd imagine all you have to do is talk to her. Oh and when you talk with her don't forget to keep intense eye contact. SHe'd like that.
 
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don't feel like finishing my essay so I'll add my opinion.

Go ahead and make a move, but know if she is willing to leave her boyfriend for you, she is very likely to do the same to you if another guy comes along. There's many posts here on this topic so just search for them and read their comments
 
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I think she likes you. The eye contact and staring, then breaking with a smile.
It's good signs mate
 
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