"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Random eye contact in class

HandyAndy

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Theres cute this asian girl in my class, ive talked to her a few times, had a few laughs. Well once in a while our eyes will meet and we will stare at each other for like 10 seconds and we both smile, then she breaks. I can see her in the corner of my eye looking at me, its as if shes craving my eye contact and wants this done on purpose. Any ideas?

Heres a pic: http://img255.imageshack.us/img255/9274/lac4c95ea338f97792e2763do7.jpg
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ElStud

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Escalate, here's your chance to move on. The girls already interested you, so you've pretty much passed the hard part. So right now, just make sure to escalate and go for rapport. I mean really though, this girl has made it possible for you to skip the hard part and just escalate.
 

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HandyAndy said:
Well I also for got to mention she has a BF lol. And hes shorter than her by 7,000 inches, but I guess that doesnt matter.
wait she has a boyfriend and she's flirting with you? Now things might get complicated :(
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That, my friend, means one thing, she's into you. I'd imagine all you have to do is talk to her. Oh and when you talk with her don't forget to keep intense eye contact. SHe'd like that.
 

defiancy

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don't feel like finishing my essay so I'll add my opinion.

Go ahead and make a move, but know if she is willing to leave her boyfriend for you, she is very likely to do the same to you if another guy comes along. There's many posts here on this topic so just search for them and read their comments
 

Johnnyboy15

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I think she likes you. The eye contact and staring, then breaking with a smile.
It's good signs mate
 
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