"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Theres cute this asian girl in my class, ive talked to her a few times, had a few laughs. Well once in a while our eyes will meet and we will stare at each other for like 10 seconds and we both smile, then she breaks. I can see her in the corner of my eye looking at me, its as if shes craving my eye contact and wants this done on purpose. Any ideas?

Heres a pic: http://img255.imageshack.us/img255/9274/lac4c95ea338f97792e2763do7.jpg
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Escalate, here's your chance to move on. The girls already interested you, so you've pretty much passed the hard part. So right now, just make sure to escalate and go for rapport. I mean really though, this girl has made it possible for you to skip the hard part and just escalate.
 
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HandyAndy said:
Well I also for got to mention she has a BF lol. And hes shorter than her by 7,000 inches, but I guess that doesnt matter.
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wait she has a boyfriend and she's flirting with you? Now things might get complicated :(
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That, my friend, means one thing, she's into you. I'd imagine all you have to do is talk to her. Oh and when you talk with her don't forget to keep intense eye contact. SHe'd like that.
 
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don't feel like finishing my essay so I'll add my opinion.

Go ahead and make a move, but know if she is willing to leave her boyfriend for you, she is very likely to do the same to you if another guy comes along. There's many posts here on this topic so just search for them and read their comments
 
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I think she likes you. The eye contact and staring, then breaking with a smile.
It's good signs mate
 
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