"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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rain check

conan2120

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Hey guys,made a date with this woman,to go to the movies.Been planned all week,she called wednesday to see if we,re still going and what we,ll see.She calls today(saturday)to tell me to take a rain check,something came up at home,and that she,ll phone me later.Should I hold her to that check until she tells me what happened,or should I next her.
Mike Ryan
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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blinkwatt

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I would take one more shot in a couple of weeks. If its no go then drop the h0.
 

Warlord

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Is this your first date? Why are you taking her to the movies? Take her somewhere where you can learn about her / have fun with her, not make her into your movie buddy. Call her 2 weeks later and present her with a different itinerary. She's dated enough guys that "took her to the movies" since she was in high school.
 

napoleon

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Go out with her if she calls you. She said she will. If she doesn't she's not intrested.
 
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