"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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conan2120

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Hey guys,made a date with this woman,to go to the movies.Been planned all week,she called wednesday to see if we,re still going and what we,ll see.She calls today(saturday)to tell me to take a rain check,something came up at home,and that she,ll phone me later.Should I hold her to that check until she tells me what happened,or should I next her.
Mike Ryan
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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blinkwatt

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I would take one more shot in a couple of weeks. If its no go then drop the h0.
 
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Is this your first date? Why are you taking her to the movies? Take her somewhere where you can learn about her / have fun with her, not make her into your movie buddy. Call her 2 weeks later and present her with a different itinerary. She's dated enough guys that "took her to the movies" since she was in high school.
 
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Go out with her if she calls you. She said she will. If she doesn't she's not intrested.
 
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