"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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conan2120

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Hey guys,made a date with this woman,to go to the movies.Been planned all week,she called wednesday to see if we,re still going and what we,ll see.She calls today(saturday)to tell me to take a rain check,something came up at home,and that she,ll phone me later.Should I hold her to that check until she tells me what happened,or should I next her.
Mike Ryan
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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blinkwatt

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I would take one more shot in a couple of weeks. If its no go then drop the h0.
 

Warlord

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Is this your first date? Why are you taking her to the movies? Take her somewhere where you can learn about her / have fun with her, not make her into your movie buddy. Call her 2 weeks later and present her with a different itinerary. She's dated enough guys that "took her to the movies" since she was in high school.
 

napoleon

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Go out with her if she calls you. She said she will. If she doesn't she's not intrested.
 
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