"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So this girl I happen to live with in my apartment in separate rooms always wants to do things with me like go eat dinner, walk with her, go hiking or fun places. She says sexual references and does slightly provocative things. Here is the problem, I say and do things and she will smile or very rarely laugh and doesn't really touch etc. It'd just so odd (her pupils do dilate and she always has positive gestures in terms of hands and eye contact and direction etc. Could it be her personality that she doesnt flirt with touching and what not.

Also she went to go hangout with a guy she knows who was in the hospital for a while and I she was saying a million things to do and hang out just me and her. I am just very confused. Does she seem to like me? Could it be where she grew up in New Jersey and were in California? I just don't want to waste my time.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The good old "I can't believe she's into me" syndrome, where you get every single evidence she's into you but you don't believe it. Instead you're confused, is there really anything to be confused about here? How much more of a hint do you need, won't you get it before she jumps you and beg you to fvck her?

Getting physical is usually what the man do, it's all you have to do. She's making it easy for you, grab any moment and just do it already. If you want to of course, if not then just continue being passive like you do now.
 
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