"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dexes

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So this girl I happen to live with in my apartment in separate rooms always wants to do things with me like go eat dinner, walk with her, go hiking or fun places. She says sexual references and does slightly provocative things. Here is the problem, I say and do things and she will smile or very rarely laugh and doesn't really touch etc. It'd just so odd (her pupils do dilate and she always has positive gestures in terms of hands and eye contact and direction etc. Could it be her personality that she doesnt flirt with touching and what not.

Also she went to go hangout with a guy she knows who was in the hospital for a while and I she was saying a million things to do and hang out just me and her. I am just very confused. Does she seem to like me? Could it be where she grew up in New Jersey and were in California? I just don't want to waste my time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The good old "I can't believe she's into me" syndrome, where you get every single evidence she's into you but you don't believe it. Instead you're confused, is there really anything to be confused about here? How much more of a hint do you need, won't you get it before she jumps you and beg you to fvck her?

Getting physical is usually what the man do, it's all you have to do. She's making it easy for you, grab any moment and just do it already. If you want to of course, if not then just continue being passive like you do now.
 
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