"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rake669

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So I know this one girl from class and today I chatted her up a bit. I asked her if I can text her (mistake) and she said "No". I replied "it's alright, I already have your number so I'll text you anyway", she then laughed and that was the end of that. As she left class she said bye and seemed like she had some IL.
I texted her twenty minutes later and got no reply. I assume if she had high IL she would reply fairly quick.
Thinking about confronting her about it in a playful manner, but not sure if it's a lost cause.
Just looking for some thoughts on whether or not I should proceed and what would be the best way?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So I know this one girl from class and today I chatted her up a bit. I asked her if I can text her (mistake) and she said "No". I replied "it's alright, I already have your number so I'll text you anyway", she then laughed and that was the end of that. As she left class she said bye and seemed like she had some IL.
I texted her twenty minutes later and got no reply. I assume if she had high IL she would reply fairly quick.
Thinking about confronting her about it in a playful manner, but not sure if it's a lost cause.
Just looking for some thoughts on whether or not I should proceed and what would be the best way?
Confronting her! Why would you ever do that? Let it go man.

If you don't hear back from a chick that said you can't text her, you gain nothing by 'confronting her' besides looking all butt-hurt.
 

Rake669

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Confronting her! Why would you ever do that? Let it go man.

If you don't hear back from a chick that said you can't text her, you gain nothing by 'confronting her' besides looking all butt-hurt.
First, she's hot af. Second, there were some definite indicators of IL. And I guess confront is the wrong word, more like "Mention".
The play I'm going for is persistent without looking desperate. But I may have already ****ed that up lol.
 

pyros

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you already look desperate. You asked her if you could text her and she told you NO. But you did it anyway so she had to ignore you.
But you want to keep contacting her...

ARE YOU RETARDED?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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marmel75

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This is a lost cause bro.

I mean at least Pyros gets flaked on, then goes out with them and rationalizes why he didn't kiss the girl, lmao...
 

parkthebus

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If she is hot but not showing definite interest then I would suggest hot and cold, rappor and then break rappor.
 
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