"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rake669

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So I know this one girl from class and today I chatted her up a bit. I asked her if I can text her (mistake) and she said "No". I replied "it's alright, I already have your number so I'll text you anyway", she then laughed and that was the end of that. As she left class she said bye and seemed like she had some IL.
I texted her twenty minutes later and got no reply. I assume if she had high IL she would reply fairly quick.
Thinking about confronting her about it in a playful manner, but not sure if it's a lost cause.
Just looking for some thoughts on whether or not I should proceed and what would be the best way?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So I know this one girl from class and today I chatted her up a bit. I asked her if I can text her (mistake) and she said "No". I replied "it's alright, I already have your number so I'll text you anyway", she then laughed and that was the end of that. As she left class she said bye and seemed like she had some IL.
I texted her twenty minutes later and got no reply. I assume if she had high IL she would reply fairly quick.
Thinking about confronting her about it in a playful manner, but not sure if it's a lost cause.
Just looking for some thoughts on whether or not I should proceed and what would be the best way?
Confronting her! Why would you ever do that? Let it go man.

If you don't hear back from a chick that said you can't text her, you gain nothing by 'confronting her' besides looking all butt-hurt.
 

Rake669

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Confronting her! Why would you ever do that? Let it go man.

If you don't hear back from a chick that said you can't text her, you gain nothing by 'confronting her' besides looking all butt-hurt.
First, she's hot af. Second, there were some definite indicators of IL. And I guess confront is the wrong word, more like "Mention".
The play I'm going for is persistent without looking desperate. But I may have already ****ed that up lol.
 

pyros

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you already look desperate. You asked her if you could text her and she told you NO. But you did it anyway so she had to ignore you.
But you want to keep contacting her...

ARE YOU RETARDED?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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marmel75

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This is a lost cause bro.

I mean at least Pyros gets flaked on, then goes out with them and rationalizes why he didn't kiss the girl, lmao...
 

parkthebus

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If she is hot but not showing definite interest then I would suggest hot and cold, rappor and then break rappor.
 
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