"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rake669

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So I know this one girl from class and today I chatted her up a bit. I asked her if I can text her (mistake) and she said "No". I replied "it's alright, I already have your number so I'll text you anyway", she then laughed and that was the end of that. As she left class she said bye and seemed like she had some IL.
I texted her twenty minutes later and got no reply. I assume if she had high IL she would reply fairly quick.
Thinking about confronting her about it in a playful manner, but not sure if it's a lost cause.
Just looking for some thoughts on whether or not I should proceed and what would be the best way?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So I know this one girl from class and today I chatted her up a bit. I asked her if I can text her (mistake) and she said "No". I replied "it's alright, I already have your number so I'll text you anyway", she then laughed and that was the end of that. As she left class she said bye and seemed like she had some IL.
I texted her twenty minutes later and got no reply. I assume if she had high IL she would reply fairly quick.
Thinking about confronting her about it in a playful manner, but not sure if it's a lost cause.
Just looking for some thoughts on whether or not I should proceed and what would be the best way?
Confronting her! Why would you ever do that? Let it go man.

If you don't hear back from a chick that said you can't text her, you gain nothing by 'confronting her' besides looking all butt-hurt.
 

Rake669

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Confronting her! Why would you ever do that? Let it go man.

If you don't hear back from a chick that said you can't text her, you gain nothing by 'confronting her' besides looking all butt-hurt.
First, she's hot af. Second, there were some definite indicators of IL. And I guess confront is the wrong word, more like "Mention".
The play I'm going for is persistent without looking desperate. But I may have already ****ed that up lol.
 

pyros

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you already look desperate. You asked her if you could text her and she told you NO. But you did it anyway so she had to ignore you.
But you want to keep contacting her...

ARE YOU RETARDED?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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marmel75

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This is a lost cause bro.

I mean at least Pyros gets flaked on, then goes out with them and rationalizes why he didn't kiss the girl, lmao...
 

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If she is hot but not showing definite interest then I would suggest hot and cold, rappor and then break rappor.
 
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