"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Quick video on CONFIDENCE. By a woman. She makes some good points.

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I didn't realize she was articulating words. I was too busy visualizing taking a shot out of her dimple.
 

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narcissist said:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A08amaHaqvQ


I think everything she says is spot on.

What do you guys think?
Everything is spot-on for a male. It's too bad that females are trying to become men. Confidence is not a female trait. It never has been and never will be.

I would call her confidence "crassness" ("I could just jizz everywhere", she says), complete with imitating male jerking.

I look for confidence in femininity, not fake male-like confidence.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Atom Smasher said:
Everything is spot-on for a male. It's too bad that females are trying to become men. Confidence is not a female trait. It never has been and never will be.

I would call her confidence "crassness" ("I could just jizz everywhere", she says), complete with imitating male jerking.

I look for confidence in femininity, not fake male-like confidence.
This is such a good point. Her points are very valid... for MEN. I don't have any appreciation for women that want to be like men (feminism). I don't find the 'strong, independent woman' movement attractive in any way. I would much rather drink and socialize with friends and remain single. WOMEN being feminine is attractive and confident. MEN being assertive and dominant is confident. Double standards are a thing, because men and women aren't the same.
 

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I've got to say, the "slow it down" part is the closest thing I've ever found to "instant" confidence. Every time I crank down my movements and speech, everything else seems to click. Video was a good reminder of that.
 
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