"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Quick video on CONFIDENCE. By a woman. She makes some good points.

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

j.619

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 12, 2014
Messages
221
Reaction score
12
Location
San Diego
I didn't realize she was articulating words. I was too busy visualizing taking a shot out of her dimple.
 

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,655
Reaction score
6,611
Age
69
Location
The 7th Dimension
narcissist said:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A08amaHaqvQ


I think everything she says is spot on.

What do you guys think?
Everything is spot-on for a male. It's too bad that females are trying to become men. Confidence is not a female trait. It never has been and never will be.

I would call her confidence "crassness" ("I could just jizz everywhere", she says), complete with imitating male jerking.

I look for confidence in femininity, not fake male-like confidence.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

j.619

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 12, 2014
Messages
221
Reaction score
12
Location
San Diego
Atom Smasher said:
Everything is spot-on for a male. It's too bad that females are trying to become men. Confidence is not a female trait. It never has been and never will be.

I would call her confidence "crassness" ("I could just jizz everywhere", she says), complete with imitating male jerking.

I look for confidence in femininity, not fake male-like confidence.
This is such a good point. Her points are very valid... for MEN. I don't have any appreciation for women that want to be like men (feminism). I don't find the 'strong, independent woman' movement attractive in any way. I would much rather drink and socialize with friends and remain single. WOMEN being feminine is attractive and confident. MEN being assertive and dominant is confident. Double standards are a thing, because men and women aren't the same.
 

Heisenberg

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2014
Messages
138
Reaction score
23
Location
Boston, MA
I've got to say, the "slow it down" part is the closest thing I've ever found to "instant" confidence. Every time I crank down my movements and speech, everything else seems to click. Video was a good reminder of that.
 
Top