"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Quick video on CONFIDENCE. By a woman. She makes some good points.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I didn't realize she was articulating words. I was too busy visualizing taking a shot out of her dimple.
 

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narcissist said:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A08amaHaqvQ


I think everything she says is spot on.

What do you guys think?
Everything is spot-on for a male. It's too bad that females are trying to become men. Confidence is not a female trait. It never has been and never will be.

I would call her confidence "crassness" ("I could just jizz everywhere", she says), complete with imitating male jerking.

I look for confidence in femininity, not fake male-like confidence.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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Atom Smasher said:
Everything is spot-on for a male. It's too bad that females are trying to become men. Confidence is not a female trait. It never has been and never will be.

I would call her confidence "crassness" ("I could just jizz everywhere", she says), complete with imitating male jerking.

I look for confidence in femininity, not fake male-like confidence.
This is such a good point. Her points are very valid... for MEN. I don't have any appreciation for women that want to be like men (feminism). I don't find the 'strong, independent woman' movement attractive in any way. I would much rather drink and socialize with friends and remain single. WOMEN being feminine is attractive and confident. MEN being assertive and dominant is confident. Double standards are a thing, because men and women aren't the same.
 

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I've got to say, the "slow it down" part is the closest thing I've ever found to "instant" confidence. Every time I crank down my movements and speech, everything else seems to click. Video was a good reminder of that.
 
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