narcissist
Master Don Juan
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A08amaHaqvQ
I think everything she says is spot on.
What do you guys think?
I think everything she says is spot on.
What do you guys think?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Quick video on CONFIDENCE. By a woman. She makes some good points.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Heisenberg
Don Juan
Yup, I think that's all great advice. She's cute, too!
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Everything is spot-on for a male. It's too bad that females are trying to become men. Confidence is not a female trait. It never has been and never will be.narcissist said:
I would call her confidence "crassness" ("I could just jizz everywhere", she says), complete with imitating male jerking.
I look for confidence in femininity, not fake male-like confidence.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
This is such a good point. Her points are very valid... for MEN. I don't have any appreciation for women that want to be like men (feminism). I don't find the 'strong, independent woman' movement attractive in any way. I would much rather drink and socialize with friends and remain single. WOMEN being feminine is attractive and confident. MEN being assertive and dominant is confident. Double standards are a thing, because men and women aren't the same.Atom Smasher said:
Heisenberg
Don Juan
I've got to say, the "slow it down" part is the closest thing I've ever found to "instant" confidence. Every time I crank down my movements and speech, everything else seems to click. Video was a good reminder of that.