Hockey Playa
Master Don Juan
Jerk off the same day as sex, bad or good???, i usually blow pretty quick, so im having a couple beers as welll, u think the alcohol will be enough? or jerk off will be good?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hockey Playa
Master Don Juan
Bump, i know u have all considered this answer fast!
Wow guys, you actually take time to plan ahead a wank session so that you last longer in the sack... First of all it's not going to feel nearly as nice for you if you wank it an hour before hand and secondly, who says your getting this ass anyways? It'll just build up the anxiety you get for having sex more and more and you'll be nervous when your chance comes. Just go with it and learn some techniques that help you out. I'll admit i've had a few of my own short sessions but it's easy to learn to last a lot longer.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The first time I had sex I was so worried about blowing early I was scowering this forum for techniques! Luckily for me, I got caught having sex my first time so now I seem to have this mental block that prevents me from coming unless I have sex for about an hour.
If you're not as lucky as me I recommend the following:
- Durex Climax Control condoms I don't trust (both times I used them they slipped off, never had this problem with Trojans), but I do realize that they numbed my dink so much I would of had a better chance of coming if I were watching paint dry.
- Don't think about having sex when you're having sex, think of something that makes you less horny.
- This may not make sense, I can barely comprehend what I'm about to type... but there are different types of thrusts you can use. There are thrusts that make you want to blow within a few thrusts then there are ones that seem to hit her good but don't really do much for you. I call them "Giving Presents". If thrusting is feeling almost unbelievably too good for you, try altering it so you notice she's moaning more and you don't feel too much.
- Masturbate but don't come. Get to the edge, and stop. Do this again, and again, and again! Eventually you'll discipline yourself into not coming.
If you're not as lucky as me I recommend the following:
- Durex Climax Control condoms I don't trust (both times I used them they slipped off, never had this problem with Trojans), but I do realize that they numbed my dink so much I would of had a better chance of coming if I were watching paint dry.
- Don't think about having sex when you're having sex, think of something that makes you less horny.
- This may not make sense, I can barely comprehend what I'm about to type... but there are different types of thrusts you can use. There are thrusts that make you want to blow within a few thrusts then there are ones that seem to hit her good but don't really do much for you. I call them "Giving Presents". If thrusting is feeling almost unbelievably too good for you, try altering it so you notice she's moaning more and you don't feel too much.
- Masturbate but don't come. Get to the edge, and stop. Do this again, and again, and again! Eventually you'll discipline yourself into not coming.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Wait.
I hate when people say "think of something else"
WHY???
Why are you having sex? To enjoy it. Why would you take away from that pleasure. Just research premature ejactulation. Controling both your PC and BC muscles can increase and lengthen the pleasure you recieve. Learn to switch positions, mix up the pace etc.
I hate when people say "think of something else"
WHY???
Why are you having sex? To enjoy it. Why would you take away from that pleasure. Just research premature ejactulation. Controling both your PC and BC muscles can increase and lengthen the pleasure you recieve. Learn to switch positions, mix up the pace etc.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yeah, I guess Skilla has it dead on really!
Sex shouldn't be a chore in which you're willing to sacrafice your pleasure by thinking about Margaret Thatcher naked just so you can look like a macho stud and please the girl you're shagging. When I get really close to cvmming and I wanna last longer, I just stop dead in my tracks, give the girl a grin, and then start off slower again. Also, it takes girls longer to calm down after sex, so you can just go at it again once you've recovered and this time you'll take much longer, or might be unable to cvm at all
-shaun