Hockey Playa
Master Don Juan
Jerk off the same day as sex, bad or good???, i usually blow pretty quick, so im having a couple beers as welll, u think the alcohol will be enough? or jerk off will be good?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Good advice. It also helps a lot of guys to have the woman on top because they don't get as much of a sensation.itishe said:The first time I had sex I was so worried about blowing early I was scowering this forum for techniques! Luckily for me, I got caught having sex my first time so now I seem to have this mental block that prevents me from coming unless I have sex for about an hour.
If you're not as lucky as me I recommend the following:
- Durex Climax Control condoms I don't trust (both times I used them they slipped off, never had this problem with Trojans), but I do realize that they numbed my dink so much I would of had a better chance of coming if I were watching paint dry.
- Don't think about having sex when you're having sex, think of something that makes you less horny.
- This may not make sense, I can barely comprehend what I'm about to type... but there are different types of thrusts you can use. There are thrusts that make you want to blow within a few thrusts then there are ones that seem to hit her good but don't really do much for you. I call them "Giving Presents". If thrusting is feeling almost unbelievably too good for you, try altering it so you notice she's moaning more and you don't feel too much.
- Masturbate but don't come. Get to the edge, and stop. Do this again, and again, and again! Eventually you'll discipline yourself into not coming.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yeah, I guess Skilla has it dead on really!I hate when people say "think of something else"
WHY???
Why are you having sex? To enjoy it. Why would you take away from that pleasure. Just research premature ejactulation. Controling both your PC and BC muscles can increase and lengthen the pleasure you recieve. Learn to switch positions, mix up the pace etc.