Quick sex question , reply anything fast

[Hockey Playa]

Jerk off the same day as sex, bad or good???, i usually blow pretty quick, so im having a couple beers as welll, u think the alcohol will be enough? or jerk off will be good?

 

[shaunuk]

I do it sometimes if I wanna last a while..for me, lots of masturbation *does* mean it takes more effort to cvm during sex.

You know your body better than I know it bud, do both for good measure

-shaun

 

[Hockey Playa]

Bump, i know u have all considered this answer fast!

 

[Oxide]

Don't matter to me. I jerk before, during, after.. if you can't hold your load try it like an hour before see what happens

 

[Soupar]

Wow guys, you actually take time to plan ahead a wank session so that you last longer in the sack... First of all it's not going to feel nearly as nice for you if you wank it an hour before hand and secondly, who says your getting this ass anyways? It'll just build up the anxiety you get for having sex more and more and you'll be nervous when your chance comes. Just go with it and learn some techniques that help you out. I'll admit i've had a few of my own short sessions but it's easy to learn to last a lot longer.

 

[itishe]

The first time I had sex I was so worried about blowing early I was scowering this forum for techniques! Luckily for me, I got caught having sex my first time so now I seem to have this mental block that prevents me from coming unless I have sex for about an hour.

If you're not as lucky as me I recommend the following:

- Durex Climax Control condoms I don't trust (both times I used them they slipped off, never had this problem with Trojans), but I do realize that they numbed my dink so much I would of had a better chance of coming if I were watching paint dry.
- Don't think about having sex when you're having sex, think of something that makes you less horny.
- This may not make sense, I can barely comprehend what I'm about to type... but there are different types of thrusts you can use. There are thrusts that make you want to blow within a few thrusts then there are ones that seem to hit her good but don't really do much for you. I call them "Giving Presents". If thrusting is feeling almost unbelievably too good for you, try altering it so you notice she's moaning more and you don't feel too much.
- Masturbate but don't come. Get to the edge, and stop. Do this again, and again, and again! Eventually you'll discipline yourself into not coming.

 

[Soupar]

The first time I had sex I was so worried about blowing early I was scowering this forum for techniques! Luckily for me, I got caught having sex my first time so now I seem to have this mental block that prevents me from coming unless I have sex for about an hour.

If you're not as lucky as me I recommend the following:

- Durex Climax Control condoms I don't trust (both times I used them they slipped off, never had this problem with Trojans), but I do realize that they numbed my dink so much I would of had a better chance of coming if I were watching paint dry.
- Don't think about having sex when you're having sex, think of something that makes you less horny.
- This may not make sense, I can barely comprehend what I'm about to type... but there are different types of thrusts you can use. There are thrusts that make you want to blow within a few thrusts then there are ones that seem to hit her good but don't really do much for you. I call them "Giving Presents". If thrusting is feeling almost unbelievably too good for you, try altering it so you notice she's moaning more and you don't feel too much.
- Masturbate but don't come. Get to the edge, and stop. Do this again, and again, and again! Eventually you'll discipline yourself into not coming.

Good advice. It also helps a lot of guys to have the woman on top because they don't get as much of a sensation.

 

[Skilla_Staz]

Wait.


I hate when people say "think of something else"


WHY???

Why are you having sex? To enjoy it. Why would you take away from that pleasure. Just research premature ejactulation. Controling both your PC and BC muscles can increase and lengthen the pleasure you recieve. Learn to switch positions, mix up the pace etc.

 

[danno1]

I hear you skilla; whats the point of having sex if you are thinking of reverse math or something the whole time

 

[itishe]

I would suppose the point would be to answer what he asked for... methods of delaying ejaculation.

 

[blinkwatt]

If you blow early just start again. Hopefully you know the chick well enough were she would be understanding. If your not in the mood after just call it a day,not much you can do.

 

[shaunuk]

I hate when people say "think of something else"


WHY???

Why are you having sex? To enjoy it. Why would you take away from that pleasure. Just research premature ejactulation. Controling both your PC and BC muscles can increase and lengthen the pleasure you recieve. Learn to switch positions, mix up the pace etc.

Yeah, I guess Skilla has it dead on really! Sex shouldn't be a chore in which you're willing to sacrafice your pleasure by thinking about Margaret Thatcher naked just so you can look like a macho stud and please the girl you're shagging. When I get really close to cvmming and I wanna last longer, I just stop dead in my tracks, give the girl a grin, and then start off slower again.

Also, it takes girls longer to calm down after sex, so you can just go at it again once you've recovered and this time you'll take much longer, or might be unable to cvm at all

-shaun