Hockey Playa
Master Don Juan
Jerk off the same day as sex, bad or good???, i usually blow pretty quick, so im having a couple beers as welll, u think the alcohol will be enough? or jerk off will be good?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Quick sex question , reply anything fast
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hockey Playa
Master Don Juan
Bump, i know u have all considered this answer fast!
Wow guys, you actually take time to plan ahead a wank session so that you last longer in the sack... First of all it's not going to feel nearly as nice for you if you wank it an hour before hand and secondly, who says your getting this ass anyways? It'll just build up the anxiety you get for having sex more and more and you'll be nervous when your chance comes. Just go with it and learn some techniques that help you out. I'll admit i've had a few of my own short sessions but it's easy to learn to last a lot longer.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The first time I had sex I was so worried about blowing early I was scowering this forum for techniques! Luckily for me, I got caught having sex my first time so now I seem to have this mental block that prevents me from coming unless I have sex for about an hour.
If you're not as lucky as me I recommend the following:
- Durex Climax Control condoms I don't trust (both times I used them they slipped off, never had this problem with Trojans), but I do realize that they numbed my dink so much I would of had a better chance of coming if I were watching paint dry.
- Don't think about having sex when you're having sex, think of something that makes you less horny.
- This may not make sense, I can barely comprehend what I'm about to type... but there are different types of thrusts you can use. There are thrusts that make you want to blow within a few thrusts then there are ones that seem to hit her good but don't really do much for you. I call them "Giving Presents". If thrusting is feeling almost unbelievably too good for you, try altering it so you notice she's moaning more and you don't feel too much.
- Masturbate but don't come. Get to the edge, and stop. Do this again, and again, and again! Eventually you'll discipline yourself into not coming.
If you're not as lucky as me I recommend the following:
- Durex Climax Control condoms I don't trust (both times I used them they slipped off, never had this problem with Trojans), but I do realize that they numbed my dink so much I would of had a better chance of coming if I were watching paint dry.
- Don't think about having sex when you're having sex, think of something that makes you less horny.
- This may not make sense, I can barely comprehend what I'm about to type... but there are different types of thrusts you can use. There are thrusts that make you want to blow within a few thrusts then there are ones that seem to hit her good but don't really do much for you. I call them "Giving Presents". If thrusting is feeling almost unbelievably too good for you, try altering it so you notice she's moaning more and you don't feel too much.
- Masturbate but don't come. Get to the edge, and stop. Do this again, and again, and again! Eventually you'll discipline yourself into not coming.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Wait.
I hate when people say "think of something else"
WHY???
Why are you having sex? To enjoy it. Why would you take away from that pleasure. Just research premature ejactulation. Controling both your PC and BC muscles can increase and lengthen the pleasure you recieve. Learn to switch positions, mix up the pace etc.
I hate when people say "think of something else"
WHY???
Why are you having sex? To enjoy it. Why would you take away from that pleasure. Just research premature ejactulation. Controling both your PC and BC muscles can increase and lengthen the pleasure you recieve. Learn to switch positions, mix up the pace etc.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah, I guess Skilla has it dead on really!
Sex shouldn't be a chore in which you're willing to sacrafice your pleasure by thinking about Margaret Thatcher naked just so you can look like a macho stud and please the girl you're shagging. When I get really close to cvmming and I wanna last longer, I just stop dead in my tracks, give the girl a grin, and then start off slower again. Also, it takes girls longer to calm down after sex, so you can just go at it again once you've recovered and this time you'll take much longer, or might be unable to cvm at all
-shaun