"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quick question, is fingering okay at parties?

gotballz

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Hey guys,

I had a quick question....

Is it okay to finger a girl at a house party or HS party after u start makin out with her ?

And if it is, had do u start doin it? (like foreplay in general)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Analyzeit

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It all depends but at least try get partly isolated because might make the girl feel very uncomfortable and you could get the big "NO" and thats never good but if you can isolate her your all good and obviously the more slutty the less isolated you can be.

And if your good at making out using your hands, rubbing thighs and tits...ect... she should already be a bit wet so just slide your hand down there give it a little rub then put a finger in then maybe two lol but you said (like foreplay in general) so that might not have answered your question and if you want to know foreplay in general there many other threads for that

hope i helped
 

Son of anarchy

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I would listen at Analyzeit but suggest you before fingering her to actually just touch "her intimacy",its mostly a psycological thing than physical and in some occasione where there is not enough privacy it can happen to a girl to unfeel unconfortable with it or just not ready yet.
No need to say that u have to consider whos the girl you are dealing with,a virgin or a professional. :D
 

search1ng

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isolate and let your hands naturally wonder as you're making out. Ass --> bra --> breasts --> lower ---> ****.
 

NYKfan0303

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That all depends. Where are you with the girl? If your in front of a cluster of people, then, I wouldn't finger her there. Doing that would most likely make her feel very uncomfortable. Try and isolate her into a room of some sort where its just you two, or depending on how many people your getting with :D . If that is not possible, then try and go to a place with as little as possible people. You'll probably enjoy it more, and so will she. Its not hard to finger a girl. As your making out, just start rubbing her, thighs, waist, whatever, and then gradually work your way inward. Relax, enjoy it, and try to tease her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Natural Vibe

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Haha, this reminds me of one of those awkward questions a kid would ask their parents: "Mommy, why is that old man sleeping on the street sidewalk?"

All good, learning times.

Why wouldn't it be okay to finger a girl at a party? As long as you're aware of social rules and respect her privacy... it's all good. As for getting there; you need to activate the super sayan within, wake the old horn dog.

There's nothing more arousing to a girl than pure sexual intent by a male.

Unless the guy is a rapist. That wouldn't work out. You're not a rapist are you? You'll be fine, man. You gotballz.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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intrextrovert

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I say good to go as long as you're both alone and away from viewers. Otherwise it is really sleezy, for both the guy and the girl.
 
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