“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Quick question, is fingering okay at parties?

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Hey guys,

I had a quick question....

Is it okay to finger a girl at a house party or HS party after u start makin out with her ?

And if it is, had do u start doin it? (like foreplay in general)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It all depends but at least try get partly isolated because might make the girl feel very uncomfortable and you could get the big "NO" and thats never good but if you can isolate her your all good and obviously the more slutty the less isolated you can be.

And if your good at making out using your hands, rubbing thighs and tits...ect... she should already be a bit wet so just slide your hand down there give it a little rub then put a finger in then maybe two lol but you said (like foreplay in general) so that might not have answered your question and if you want to know foreplay in general there many other threads for that

hope i helped
 
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I would listen at Analyzeit but suggest you before fingering her to actually just touch "her intimacy",its mostly a psycological thing than physical and in some occasione where there is not enough privacy it can happen to a girl to unfeel unconfortable with it or just not ready yet.
No need to say that u have to consider whos the girl you are dealing with,a virgin or a professional. :D
 
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isolate and let your hands naturally wonder as you're making out. Ass --> bra --> breasts --> lower ---> ****.
 
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That all depends. Where are you with the girl? If your in front of a cluster of people, then, I wouldn't finger her there. Doing that would most likely make her feel very uncomfortable. Try and isolate her into a room of some sort where its just you two, or depending on how many people your getting with :D . If that is not possible, then try and go to a place with as little as possible people. You'll probably enjoy it more, and so will she. Its not hard to finger a girl. As your making out, just start rubbing her, thighs, waist, whatever, and then gradually work your way inward. Relax, enjoy it, and try to tease her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Haha, this reminds me of one of those awkward questions a kid would ask their parents: "Mommy, why is that old man sleeping on the street sidewalk?"

All good, learning times.

Why wouldn't it be okay to finger a girl at a party? As long as you're aware of social rules and respect her privacy... it's all good. As for getting there; you need to activate the super sayan within, wake the old horn dog.

There's nothing more arousing to a girl than pure sexual intent by a male.

Unless the guy is a rapist. That wouldn't work out. You're not a rapist are you? You'll be fine, man. You gotballz.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I say good to go as long as you're both alone and away from viewers. Otherwise it is really sleezy, for both the guy and the girl.
 
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