"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Quick question, is fingering okay at parties?

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gotballz

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Hey guys,

I had a quick question....

Is it okay to finger a girl at a house party or HS party after u start makin out with her ?

And if it is, had do u start doin it? (like foreplay in general)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It all depends but at least try get partly isolated because might make the girl feel very uncomfortable and you could get the big "NO" and thats never good but if you can isolate her your all good and obviously the more slutty the less isolated you can be.

And if your good at making out using your hands, rubbing thighs and tits...ect... she should already be a bit wet so just slide your hand down there give it a little rub then put a finger in then maybe two lol but you said (like foreplay in general) so that might not have answered your question and if you want to know foreplay in general there many other threads for that

hope i helped
 
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I would listen at Analyzeit but suggest you before fingering her to actually just touch "her intimacy",its mostly a psycological thing than physical and in some occasione where there is not enough privacy it can happen to a girl to unfeel unconfortable with it or just not ready yet.
No need to say that u have to consider whos the girl you are dealing with,a virgin or a professional. :D
 
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isolate and let your hands naturally wonder as you're making out. Ass --> bra --> breasts --> lower ---> ****.
 
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That all depends. Where are you with the girl? If your in front of a cluster of people, then, I wouldn't finger her there. Doing that would most likely make her feel very uncomfortable. Try and isolate her into a room of some sort where its just you two, or depending on how many people your getting with :D . If that is not possible, then try and go to a place with as little as possible people. You'll probably enjoy it more, and so will she. Its not hard to finger a girl. As your making out, just start rubbing her, thighs, waist, whatever, and then gradually work your way inward. Relax, enjoy it, and try to tease her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Haha, this reminds me of one of those awkward questions a kid would ask their parents: "Mommy, why is that old man sleeping on the street sidewalk?"

All good, learning times.

Why wouldn't it be okay to finger a girl at a party? As long as you're aware of social rules and respect her privacy... it's all good. As for getting there; you need to activate the super sayan within, wake the old horn dog.

There's nothing more arousing to a girl than pure sexual intent by a male.

Unless the guy is a rapist. That wouldn't work out. You're not a rapist are you? You'll be fine, man. You gotballz.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I say good to go as long as you're both alone and away from viewers. Otherwise it is really sleezy, for both the guy and the girl.
 
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