davidsonj73
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I haven't had much experience with women, and am wondering: What questions do women commonly ask men? I want to prepare answers for these common questions ahead of time.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
This is the most basic question that women tend to ask."What is your job?"
It has been my experience that women in general ask fewer questions on dates than one might think that they would ask.She needs to assess your position in the socio-economical hierarchy before any other thing.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What do you say?They like to ask about your last relationship and why it ended.
Something that doesn't paint either party in a negative light. Don't share details. Make it something that anyone can relate to.What do you say?
You should also practice questions that you will be asking of women. Here are a few suggestisons:I haven't had much experience with women, and am wondering: What questions do women commonly ask men? I want to prepare answers for these common questions ahead of time.
Or, it can open the door to asking her "so how was the passion aspect? How much sex do you like to have in a relationship?"Something that doesn't paint either party in a negative light. Don't share details. Make it something that anyone can relate to.
When I get asked why I got divorced I tell them we both grew apart and quit working at it.
And then I ask them the same question. Not because I want to know, simply because I know they don't want to answer it either. It sends the message that its not appropriate to talk about with out saying that.