davidsonj73
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I haven't had much experience with women, and am wondering: What questions do women commonly ask men? I want to prepare answers for these common questions ahead of time.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This is the most basic question that women tend to ask."What is your job?"
It has been my experience that women in general ask fewer questions on dates than one might think that they would ask.She needs to assess your position in the socio-economical hierarchy before any other thing.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
What do you say?They like to ask about your last relationship and why it ended.
Something that doesn't paint either party in a negative light. Don't share details. Make it something that anyone can relate to.What do you say?
You should also practice questions that you will be asking of women. Here are a few suggestisons:I haven't had much experience with women, and am wondering: What questions do women commonly ask men? I want to prepare answers for these common questions ahead of time.
Or, it can open the door to asking her "so how was the passion aspect? How much sex do you like to have in a relationship?"Something that doesn't paint either party in a negative light. Don't share details. Make it something that anyone can relate to.
When I get asked why I got divorced I tell them we both grew apart and quit working at it.
And then I ask them the same question. Not because I want to know, simply because I know they don't want to answer it either. It sends the message that its not appropriate to talk about with out saying that.