davidsonj73
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I haven't had much experience with women, and am wondering: What questions do women commonly ask men? I want to prepare answers for these common questions ahead of time.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This is the most basic question that women tend to ask."What is your job?"
It has been my experience that women in general ask fewer questions on dates than one might think that they would ask.She needs to assess your position in the socio-economical hierarchy before any other thing.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What do you say?They like to ask about your last relationship and why it ended.
Something that doesn't paint either party in a negative light. Don't share details. Make it something that anyone can relate to.What do you say?
You should also practice questions that you will be asking of women. Here are a few suggestisons:I haven't had much experience with women, and am wondering: What questions do women commonly ask men? I want to prepare answers for these common questions ahead of time.
Or, it can open the door to asking her "so how was the passion aspect? How much sex do you like to have in a relationship?"Something that doesn't paint either party in a negative light. Don't share details. Make it something that anyone can relate to.
When I get asked why I got divorced I tell them we both grew apart and quit working at it.
And then I ask them the same question. Not because I want to know, simply because I know they don't want to answer it either. It sends the message that its not appropriate to talk about with out saying that.