"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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questions about past

toasttopper1879

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I have met a girl just as a friend who keeps bringing up my past.Shes heard I've a bit of a reputation and she keeps asking me about my past sexual experiences.Strange thing is,she does'nt seem to want me to keep it quiet and she seems more encouraged by the fact I've a past.She does also want to know if these past relations are over,especially my marriage.
Whys she so concerned about my past.To me its gone,its the past,over and I've told her this.
I got a wee bit fed up with it and started to pull back on her and stay aloof from her on several ocassions.Then when I do give her attention and go and have a bit talk with her she beams with delight.I do this all unintentionally of course.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cableguy

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A little push pull gets them everytime. If it were me I wouldn't reveal too much about my past ESPECIALLY if some chick was asking me tons of questions about it. Keep it a mystery. Whatever she's heard obviously hasn't kept her from digging you. The less she knows for sure the less she can throw in your face later.
 

Ace_McGregor

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"Less history, more mystery". The only things she needs to know is that you were the one that ended all of your past relationships and that you're not going to go into it b/c you are a gentleman.

Sounds like your seduction is going well, don't buy into her **** test and spill you guts. If she keeps pushing the subject be firm about it.
 

Trapper

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I think she is serious with you and she is just trying to get some hints about your personality to go further or not..
 
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