"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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questions about past

toasttopper1879

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I have met a girl just as a friend who keeps bringing up my past.Shes heard I've a bit of a reputation and she keeps asking me about my past sexual experiences.Strange thing is,she does'nt seem to want me to keep it quiet and she seems more encouraged by the fact I've a past.She does also want to know if these past relations are over,especially my marriage.
Whys she so concerned about my past.To me its gone,its the past,over and I've told her this.
I got a wee bit fed up with it and started to pull back on her and stay aloof from her on several ocassions.Then when I do give her attention and go and have a bit talk with her she beams with delight.I do this all unintentionally of course.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cableguy

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A little push pull gets them everytime. If it were me I wouldn't reveal too much about my past ESPECIALLY if some chick was asking me tons of questions about it. Keep it a mystery. Whatever she's heard obviously hasn't kept her from digging you. The less she knows for sure the less she can throw in your face later.
 

Ace_McGregor

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"Less history, more mystery". The only things she needs to know is that you were the one that ended all of your past relationships and that you're not going to go into it b/c you are a gentleman.

Sounds like your seduction is going well, don't buy into her **** test and spill you guts. If she keeps pushing the subject be firm about it.
 

Trapper

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I think she is serious with you and she is just trying to get some hints about your personality to go further or not..
 
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