"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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toasttopper1879

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I have met a girl just as a friend who keeps bringing up my past.Shes heard I've a bit of a reputation and she keeps asking me about my past sexual experiences.Strange thing is,she does'nt seem to want me to keep it quiet and she seems more encouraged by the fact I've a past.She does also want to know if these past relations are over,especially my marriage.
Whys she so concerned about my past.To me its gone,its the past,over and I've told her this.
I got a wee bit fed up with it and started to pull back on her and stay aloof from her on several ocassions.Then when I do give her attention and go and have a bit talk with her she beams with delight.I do this all unintentionally of course.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A little push pull gets them everytime. If it were me I wouldn't reveal too much about my past ESPECIALLY if some chick was asking me tons of questions about it. Keep it a mystery. Whatever she's heard obviously hasn't kept her from digging you. The less she knows for sure the less she can throw in your face later.
 
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"Less history, more mystery". The only things she needs to know is that you were the one that ended all of your past relationships and that you're not going to go into it b/c you are a gentleman.

Sounds like your seduction is going well, don't buy into her **** test and spill you guts. If she keeps pushing the subject be firm about it.
 
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I think she is serious with you and she is just trying to get some hints about your personality to go further or not..
 
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