"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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questions about past

toasttopper1879

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I have met a girl just as a friend who keeps bringing up my past.Shes heard I've a bit of a reputation and she keeps asking me about my past sexual experiences.Strange thing is,she does'nt seem to want me to keep it quiet and she seems more encouraged by the fact I've a past.She does also want to know if these past relations are over,especially my marriage.
Whys she so concerned about my past.To me its gone,its the past,over and I've told her this.
I got a wee bit fed up with it and started to pull back on her and stay aloof from her on several ocassions.Then when I do give her attention and go and have a bit talk with her she beams with delight.I do this all unintentionally of course.
 

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Cableguy

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A little push pull gets them everytime. If it were me I wouldn't reveal too much about my past ESPECIALLY if some chick was asking me tons of questions about it. Keep it a mystery. Whatever she's heard obviously hasn't kept her from digging you. The less she knows for sure the less she can throw in your face later.
 

Ace_McGregor

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"Less history, more mystery". The only things she needs to know is that you were the one that ended all of your past relationships and that you're not going to go into it b/c you are a gentleman.

Sounds like your seduction is going well, don't buy into her **** test and spill you guts. If she keeps pushing the subject be firm about it.
 

Trapper

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I think she is serious with you and she is just trying to get some hints about your personality to go further or not..
 
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