Ok. This is starting to piss me off. My girlfriend is starting to make this a habit. She calls my cell and then hangs up after one ring to my phone. It's pointless. She knows its too fast for me to pick up. What the f. I think i'm giving her positive reinforcement when I call her back.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
then don't. or tell her to quit it.
Qmanchoo
Don Juan
Put your foot down. You're a man and you're pissed off. What do men do that are pissed off at a woman acting immature and manipulative to solve the problem? Call them back and be accomodating? NO
Personally this would ROALLY piss me off. It would only happen early on, and once, because if she did I'd say something like (in a perfectly calm voice)
"You seem to have a lot of free time on your hands, if you're going to entertain yourself by being immature and trying to iritate me, you're going to have a lot more. (pause) You're better than that."
*click*
If she's actually into you she'll be calling back later saying sorry. Now, if my advice doesn't seem to fit your sitation don't use it word for word, but at the very least put a stop to it liek spidey said.
Personally this would ROALLY piss me off. It would only happen early on, and once, because if she did I'd say something like (in a perfectly calm voice)
"You seem to have a lot of free time on your hands, if you're going to entertain yourself by being immature and trying to iritate me, you're going to have a lot more. (pause) You're better than that."
*click*
If she's actually into you she'll be calling back later saying sorry. Now, if my advice doesn't seem to fit your sitation don't use it word for word, but at the very least put a stop to it liek spidey said.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
phone calls cost money
she is doing it so you ring her back AND YOU PAY THE FOR THE CALL
i would have thought it was pretty obvious ?
she is doing it so you ring her back AND YOU PAY THE FOR THE CALL
i would have thought it was pretty obvious ?
Qmanchoo
Don Juan
Originally posted by Lost In Translation
phone calls cost money
she is doing it so you ring her back AND YOU PAY THE FOR THE CALL
i would have thought it was pretty obvious ?
Possibly, but all the more reason to put a stop to it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
LOL
yeah ? what you gunna do about it ?
yeah ? what you gunna do about it ?
PVSSY-EATER
Banned
Simple answer my friend,
SHE CAN GET AWAY WITH IT....
That is why she does it. Dont let her get away with it, and dont give a damn if she gets pissed off, next the hoe.
SHE CAN GET AWAY WITH IT....
That is why she does it. Dont let her get away with it, and dont give a damn if she gets pissed off, next the hoe.