"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok. This is starting to piss me off. My girlfriend is starting to make this a habit. She calls my cell and then hangs up after one ring to my phone. It's pointless. She knows its too fast for me to pick up. What the f. I think i'm giving her positive reinforcement when I call her back.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Put your foot down. You're a man and you're pissed off. What do men do that are pissed off at a woman acting immature and manipulative to solve the problem? Call them back and be accomodating? NO

Personally this would ROALLY piss me off. It would only happen early on, and once, because if she did I'd say something like (in a perfectly calm voice)

"You seem to have a lot of free time on your hands, if you're going to entertain yourself by being immature and trying to iritate me, you're going to have a lot more. (pause) You're better than that."

*click*

If she's actually into you she'll be calling back later saying sorry. Now, if my advice doesn't seem to fit your sitation don't use it word for word, but at the very least put a stop to it liek spidey said.
 

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phone calls cost money

she is doing it so you ring her back AND YOU PAY THE FOR THE CALL

i would have thought it was pretty obvious ?
 

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
phone calls cost money

she is doing it so you ring her back AND YOU PAY THE FOR THE CALL

i would have thought it was pretty obvious ?

Possibly, but all the more reason to put a stop to it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Simple answer my friend,

SHE CAN GET AWAY WITH IT....

That is why she does it. Dont let her get away with it, and dont give a damn if she gets pissed off, next the hoe.
 
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