Ok. This is starting to piss me off. My girlfriend is starting to make this a habit. She calls my cell and then hangs up after one ring to my phone. It's pointless. She knows its too fast for me to pick up. What the f. I think i'm giving her positive reinforcement when I call her back.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
then don't. or tell her to quit it.
Qmanchoo
Don Juan
Put your foot down. You're a man and you're pissed off. What do men do that are pissed off at a woman acting immature and manipulative to solve the problem? Call them back and be accomodating? NO
Personally this would ROALLY piss me off. It would only happen early on, and once, because if she did I'd say something like (in a perfectly calm voice)
"You seem to have a lot of free time on your hands, if you're going to entertain yourself by being immature and trying to iritate me, you're going to have a lot more. (pause) You're better than that."
*click*
If she's actually into you she'll be calling back later saying sorry. Now, if my advice doesn't seem to fit your sitation don't use it word for word, but at the very least put a stop to it liek spidey said.
Personally this would ROALLY piss me off. It would only happen early on, and once, because if she did I'd say something like (in a perfectly calm voice)
"You seem to have a lot of free time on your hands, if you're going to entertain yourself by being immature and trying to iritate me, you're going to have a lot more. (pause) You're better than that."
*click*
If she's actually into you she'll be calling back later saying sorry. Now, if my advice doesn't seem to fit your sitation don't use it word for word, but at the very least put a stop to it liek spidey said.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
phone calls cost money
she is doing it so you ring her back AND YOU PAY THE FOR THE CALL
i would have thought it was pretty obvious ?
she is doing it so you ring her back AND YOU PAY THE FOR THE CALL
i would have thought it was pretty obvious ?
Qmanchoo
Don Juan
Originally posted by Lost In Translation
phone calls cost money
she is doing it so you ring her back AND YOU PAY THE FOR THE CALL
i would have thought it was pretty obvious ?
Possibly, but all the more reason to put a stop to it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
LOL
yeah ? what you gunna do about it ?
yeah ? what you gunna do about it ?
PVSSY-EATER
Banned
Simple answer my friend,
SHE CAN GET AWAY WITH IT....
That is why she does it. Dont let her get away with it, and dont give a damn if she gets pissed off, next the hoe.
SHE CAN GET AWAY WITH IT....
That is why she does it. Dont let her get away with it, and dont give a damn if she gets pissed off, next the hoe.