Ok. This is starting to piss me off. My girlfriend is starting to make this a habit. She calls my cell and then hangs up after one ring to my phone. It's pointless. She knows its too fast for me to pick up. What the f. I think i'm giving her positive reinforcement when I call her back.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
then don't. or tell her to quit it.
Qmanchoo
Don Juan
Put your foot down. You're a man and you're pissed off. What do men do that are pissed off at a woman acting immature and manipulative to solve the problem? Call them back and be accomodating? NO
Personally this would ROALLY piss me off. It would only happen early on, and once, because if she did I'd say something like (in a perfectly calm voice)
"You seem to have a lot of free time on your hands, if you're going to entertain yourself by being immature and trying to iritate me, you're going to have a lot more. (pause) You're better than that."
*click*
If she's actually into you she'll be calling back later saying sorry. Now, if my advice doesn't seem to fit your sitation don't use it word for word, but at the very least put a stop to it liek spidey said.
Personally this would ROALLY piss me off. It would only happen early on, and once, because if she did I'd say something like (in a perfectly calm voice)
"You seem to have a lot of free time on your hands, if you're going to entertain yourself by being immature and trying to iritate me, you're going to have a lot more. (pause) You're better than that."
*click*
If she's actually into you she'll be calling back later saying sorry. Now, if my advice doesn't seem to fit your sitation don't use it word for word, but at the very least put a stop to it liek spidey said.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
phone calls cost money
she is doing it so you ring her back AND YOU PAY THE FOR THE CALL
i would have thought it was pretty obvious ?
she is doing it so you ring her back AND YOU PAY THE FOR THE CALL
i would have thought it was pretty obvious ?
Qmanchoo
Don Juan
Originally posted by Lost In Translation
phone calls cost money
she is doing it so you ring her back AND YOU PAY THE FOR THE CALL
i would have thought it was pretty obvious ?
Possibly, but all the more reason to put a stop to it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
LOL
yeah ? what you gunna do about it ?
yeah ? what you gunna do about it ?
PVSSY-EATER
Banned
Simple answer my friend,
SHE CAN GET AWAY WITH IT....
That is why she does it. Dont let her get away with it, and dont give a damn if she gets pissed off, next the hoe.
SHE CAN GET AWAY WITH IT....
That is why she does it. Dont let her get away with it, and dont give a damn if she gets pissed off, next the hoe.