"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tiesto5

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this is my first post
I just started reading the bible
My question is on facebook and texting
Should I start conversations or should I not
I don't want to look desperate or anything else
By the way I'm 15
Any tips or advice is appreciated
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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BongDuy

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it's fine if you talk to girls on facebook and texting, infact you probably should. just don't go messaging them EVERY day because that is what creates the " needy" or "desperation" vibe. Do it once in a while, and try to hang out with them when you do initiate.
 

eaglez1177

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If you've never spoken to the girl before, I REALLY do not recommend making your first communication with her over facebook. Do it in person man. This question was literally just answered in the thread below this.
 
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