"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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tiesto5

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this is my first post
I just started reading the bible
My question is on facebook and texting
Should I start conversations or should I not
I don't want to look desperate or anything else
By the way I'm 15
Any tips or advice is appreciated
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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it's fine if you talk to girls on facebook and texting, infact you probably should. just don't go messaging them EVERY day because that is what creates the " needy" or "desperation" vibe. Do it once in a while, and try to hang out with them when you do initiate.
 
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If you've never spoken to the girl before, I REALLY do not recommend making your first communication with her over facebook. Do it in person man. This question was literally just answered in the thread below this.
 
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