"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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tiesto5

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this is my first post
I just started reading the bible
My question is on facebook and texting
Should I start conversations or should I not
I don't want to look desperate or anything else
By the way I'm 15
Any tips or advice is appreciated
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BongDuy

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it's fine if you talk to girls on facebook and texting, infact you probably should. just don't go messaging them EVERY day because that is what creates the " needy" or "desperation" vibe. Do it once in a while, and try to hang out with them when you do initiate.
 

eaglez1177

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If you've never spoken to the girl before, I REALLY do not recommend making your first communication with her over facebook. Do it in person man. This question was literally just answered in the thread below this.
 
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