"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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tiesto5

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this is my first post
I just started reading the bible
My question is on facebook and texting
Should I start conversations or should I not
I don't want to look desperate or anything else
By the way I'm 15
Any tips or advice is appreciated
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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it's fine if you talk to girls on facebook and texting, infact you probably should. just don't go messaging them EVERY day because that is what creates the " needy" or "desperation" vibe. Do it once in a while, and try to hang out with them when you do initiate.
 
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If you've never spoken to the girl before, I REALLY do not recommend making your first communication with her over facebook. Do it in person man. This question was literally just answered in the thread below this.
 
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