"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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tiesto5

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this is my first post
I just started reading the bible
My question is on facebook and texting
Should I start conversations or should I not
I don't want to look desperate or anything else
By the way I'm 15
Any tips or advice is appreciated
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BongDuy

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it's fine if you talk to girls on facebook and texting, infact you probably should. just don't go messaging them EVERY day because that is what creates the " needy" or "desperation" vibe. Do it once in a while, and try to hang out with them when you do initiate.
 

eaglez1177

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If you've never spoken to the girl before, I REALLY do not recommend making your first communication with her over facebook. Do it in person man. This question was literally just answered in the thread below this.
 
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