I read the DJ bible prolouge. It talked about not asking for her time or attention. I don't get it, does that mean ask in a certain way that you aren't seeming like you want her time and attention? "Like you go here often, mind if I come along?"
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
No, it mean's don't ASK for her time. "Could I have some of your time please?"
And don't ASK for her attention. "Could I have your attention please?"
Take her time and attention away from her just by being... well... too much for her to handle and still have either left over.
Steal her time by making her think about you all the time. Steal her attention by being the centre of her universe.
Read on in the bible and you'll figure out your own way of doing that. Good luck!
And don't ASK for her attention. "Could I have your attention please?"
Take her time and attention away from her just by being... well... too much for her to handle and still have either left over.
Steal her time by making her think about you all the time. Steal her attention by being the centre of her universe.Read on in the bible and you'll figure out your own way of doing that.
Good luck!Thanks
Thanks for the advice.t0mCaT said:No, it mean's don't ASK for her time. "Could I have some of your time please?"
And don't ASK for her attention. "Could I have your attention please?"
Take her time and attention away from her just by being... well... too much for her to handle and still have either left over.
Read on in the bible and you'll figure out your own way of doing that.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.