I read the DJ bible prolouge. It talked about not asking for her time or attention. I don't get it, does that mean ask in a certain way that you aren't seeming like you want her time and attention? "Like you go here often, mind if I come along?"
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
No, it mean's don't ASK for her time. "Could I have some of your time please?"
And don't ASK for her attention. "Could I have your attention please?"
Take her time and attention away from her just by being... well... too much for her to handle and still have either left over.
Steal her time by making her think about you all the time. Steal her attention by being the centre of her universe.
Read on in the bible and you'll figure out your own way of doing that. Good luck!
And don't ASK for her attention. "Could I have your attention please?"
Take her time and attention away from her just by being... well... too much for her to handle and still have either left over.
Steal her time by making her think about you all the time. Steal her attention by being the centre of her universe.Read on in the bible and you'll figure out your own way of doing that.
Good luck!Thanks
Thanks for the advice.t0mCaT said:No, it mean's don't ASK for her time. "Could I have some of your time please?"
And don't ASK for her attention. "Could I have your attention please?"
Take her time and attention away from her just by being... well... too much for her to handle and still have either left over.
Read on in the bible and you'll figure out your own way of doing that.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.