I read the DJ bible prolouge. It talked about not asking for her time or attention. I don't get it, does that mean ask in a certain way that you aren't seeming like you want her time and attention? "Like you go here often, mind if I come along?"
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
No, it mean's don't ASK for her time. "Could I have some of your time please?"
And don't ASK for her attention. "Could I have your attention please?"
Take her time and attention away from her just by being... well... too much for her to handle and still have either left over.
Steal her time by making her think about you all the time. Steal her attention by being the centre of her universe.
Read on in the bible and you'll figure out your own way of doing that. Good luck!
And don't ASK for her attention. "Could I have your attention please?"
Take her time and attention away from her just by being... well... too much for her to handle and still have either left over.
Steal her time by making her think about you all the time. Steal her attention by being the centre of her universe.Read on in the bible and you'll figure out your own way of doing that.
Good luck!Thanks
Thanks for the advice.t0mCaT said:No, it mean's don't ASK for her time. "Could I have some of your time please?"
And don't ASK for her attention. "Could I have your attention please?"
Take her time and attention away from her just by being... well... too much for her to handle and still have either left over.
Read on in the bible and you'll figure out your own way of doing that.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.