I read the DJ bible prolouge. It talked about not asking for her time or attention. I don't get it, does that mean ask in a certain way that you aren't seeming like you want her time and attention? "Like you go here often, mind if I come along?"
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No, it mean's don't ASK for her time. "Could I have some of your time please?"
And don't ASK for her attention. "Could I have your attention please?"
Take her time and attention away from her just by being... well... too much for her to handle and still have either left over.
Steal her time by making her think about you all the time. Steal her attention by being the centre of her universe.
Read on in the bible and you'll figure out your own way of doing that. Good luck!
And don't ASK for her attention. "Could I have your attention please?"
Take her time and attention away from her just by being... well... too much for her to handle and still have either left over.
Steal her time by making her think about you all the time. Steal her attention by being the centre of her universe.Read on in the bible and you'll figure out your own way of doing that.
Good luck!Thanks
Thanks for the advice.t0mCaT said:No, it mean's don't ASK for her time. "Could I have some of your time please?"
And don't ASK for her attention. "Could I have your attention please?"
Take her time and attention away from her just by being... well... too much for her to handle and still have either left over.
Read on in the bible and you'll figure out your own way of doing that.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.