I read the DJ bible prolouge. It talked about not asking for her time or attention. I don't get it, does that mean ask in a certain way that you aren't seeming like you want her time and attention? "Like you go here often, mind if I come along?"
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No, it mean's don't ASK for her time. "Could I have some of your time please?"
And don't ASK for her attention. "Could I have your attention please?"
Take her time and attention away from her just by being... well... too much for her to handle and still have either left over.
Steal her time by making her think about you all the time. Steal her attention by being the centre of her universe.
Read on in the bible and you'll figure out your own way of doing that. Good luck!
And don't ASK for her attention. "Could I have your attention please?"
Take her time and attention away from her just by being... well... too much for her to handle and still have either left over.
Steal her time by making her think about you all the time. Steal her attention by being the centre of her universe.Read on in the bible and you'll figure out your own way of doing that.
Good luck!Thanks
Thanks for the advice.t0mCaT said:No, it mean's don't ASK for her time. "Could I have some of your time please?"
And don't ASK for her attention. "Could I have your attention please?"
Take her time and attention away from her just by being... well... too much for her to handle and still have either left over.
Read on in the bible and you'll figure out your own way of doing that.
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