Well, being a challenge has always been the gist of getting a girlfriend. However what if a girl who eventually becomes ur girlfriend only likes u for being a challenge? What will happen if you stop being a challenge after u 2 are together. Will she stop liking you??? What do u guys think?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
If you stop 'doing ' the things that gets a woman attracted to you, then she will lose attraction for you.
If you live your life like that, then you don't know your own potential. If you walk through life with insecurities of losing a woman, then your insecure in the fact that you yourself are a great person and you need no one to make you who you are.
Get away from relationships, get to know yourself, love yourself, and then you won't have any problems with chicks.
Get away from relationships, get to know yourself, love yourself, and then you won't have any problems with chicks.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
ready123
Master Don Juan
that's why you shouldn't TRY to do any of this. there's a logical reason why all these prizing suggestions work and it all revolves around having a healthy reality and a identity that's idependent of other peoples' validation
ideally, all these "tricks" should be a natural extension of you
ideally, all these "tricks" should be a natural extension of you
WC2
Master Don Juan
Mavrick said:
