Well, being a challenge has always been the gist of getting a girlfriend. However what if a girl who eventually becomes ur girlfriend only likes u for being a challenge? What will happen if you stop being a challenge after u 2 are together. Will she stop liking you??? What do u guys think?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Question on being a challenge
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
If you stop 'doing ' the things that gets a woman attracted to you, then she will lose attraction for you.
If you live your life like that, then you don't know your own potential. If you walk through life with insecurities of losing a woman, then your insecure in the fact that you yourself are a great person and you need no one to make you who you are.
Get away from relationships, get to know yourself, love yourself, and then you won't have any problems with chicks.
Get away from relationships, get to know yourself, love yourself, and then you won't have any problems with chicks.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ready123
Master Don Juan
that's why you shouldn't TRY to do any of this. there's a logical reason why all these prizing suggestions work and it all revolves around having a healthy reality and a identity that's idependent of other peoples' validation
ideally, all these "tricks" should be a natural extension of you
ideally, all these "tricks" should be a natural extension of you
WC2
Master Don Juan
Mavrick said:
