Well, being a challenge has always been the gist of getting a girlfriend. However what if a girl who eventually becomes ur girlfriend only likes u for being a challenge? What will happen if you stop being a challenge after u 2 are together. Will she stop liking you??? What do u guys think?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
If you stop 'doing ' the things that gets a woman attracted to you, then she will lose attraction for you.
If you live your life like that, then you don't know your own potential. If you walk through life with insecurities of losing a woman, then your insecure in the fact that you yourself are a great person and you need no one to make you who you are.
Get away from relationships, get to know yourself, love yourself, and then you won't have any problems with chicks.
Get away from relationships, get to know yourself, love yourself, and then you won't have any problems with chicks.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ready123
Master Don Juan
that's why you shouldn't TRY to do any of this. there's a logical reason why all these prizing suggestions work and it all revolves around having a healthy reality and a identity that's idependent of other peoples' validation
ideally, all these "tricks" should be a natural extension of you
ideally, all these "tricks" should be a natural extension of you
WC2
Master Don Juan
Mavrick said:
