Well, being a challenge has always been the gist of getting a girlfriend. However what if a girl who eventually becomes ur girlfriend only likes u for being a challenge? What will happen if you stop being a challenge after u 2 are together. Will she stop liking you??? What do u guys think?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
If you stop 'doing ' the things that gets a woman attracted to you, then she will lose attraction for you.
If you live your life like that, then you don't know your own potential. If you walk through life with insecurities of losing a woman, then your insecure in the fact that you yourself are a great person and you need no one to make you who you are.
Get away from relationships, get to know yourself, love yourself, and then you won't have any problems with chicks.
Get away from relationships, get to know yourself, love yourself, and then you won't have any problems with chicks.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ready123
Master Don Juan
that's why you shouldn't TRY to do any of this. there's a logical reason why all these prizing suggestions work and it all revolves around having a healthy reality and a identity that's idependent of other peoples' validation
ideally, all these "tricks" should be a natural extension of you
ideally, all these "tricks" should be a natural extension of you
WC2
Master Don Juan
Mavrick said:
