"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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QUESTION: is this a sh!t test?

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Friends with benefits chick meets ex.
Says she thinks she's super hot, and seems very much into me still.
Asks why I'm not with her (ex) or why I don't give her a second chance.

You guys think that's a sh!t test?
Maybe she was subtlety trying to see where I stand with her?

EDIT.

Sorry just to clarify. It was the FWB chick asking why I'm not with my ex or giving her a second chance. Obviously that's out of the question but this seems like a sh!t test on the FWBs part.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sh1t test? Yes.....

How to pass? Say....."its complicated" and leave it at that. When in doubt use as few words as possible and be vague....dont be the chump spilling his feelings and problems all over women.
 
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There are no "sh!t tests" with women you're not dating/f*cking. Wanna know why? --> Because women you're not f*cking don't matter and therefore.. should NOT be occupying your thoughts AT ALL.

If you want to f*ck any of these women in your life.. then do it. If you can't.. then ignore their existence and meet new women. :up:
 
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TheException said:
How to pass? Say....."its complicated" and leave it at that. When in doubt use as few words as possible and be vague...
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THIS x 1000

women will hate AND love you for it. saying "it's complicated, let's talk about it later" was many times the difference between NC with a hottie, or making her a FWB. and my weenie prefers FWB over NC :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheException said:
Sh1t test? Yes.....

How to pass? Say....."its complicated" and leave it at that. When in doubt use as few words as possible and be vague....dont be the chump spilling his feelings and problems all over women.
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This (and understanding why it is so) is one of the top10 things to know with women, be it FWB, LTR or your mother/sister.

Extra points: If they keep asking, repeat exactly the same words, same tone: "it's complicated". They ask a third time: repeat exactly the same words. It ends there, I garantee you.
 
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Damn. I wont make this mistake again...

What i ended up saying was...

"well, i like you more.."

Hahaha
 
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ha ha ha ......i would have said because she cant keep up with me thats why............winked and walked away.
 
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tripod23 said:
ha ha ha ......i would have said because she cant keep up with me thats why............winked and walked away.
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Haha. Oh man. I like that one.

Next time
 
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She is really asking why you are sleeping with her.

You can say "Because I think you're hot!"

The question is not about the ex. Do not draw her into your answer, do not compare. This FWB is just asking a question out of insecurity about herself.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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